MOM- Master of all trades
Motherhood is an emotion which if cherished and treasured from heart will last even beyond the physical life and a lifetime will feel to be very less time to embrace it completely. It has a rainbow of emotions to sail through. When we talk about being a mother, it brings a lot of fond, happy, cherishable, sweet, loving moments along with it where you live each and every feeling either fleeting or stable with equal joy and excitement but motherhood is equally a huge responsibility which needs to be handled very carefully because they are #MyFirstExpert .
Mothers are the most beautiful gift from god who are so lively, abundant, giving and find solace in giving more than receiving and still they are left with so much love, care, persistence, tolerance and sane-sense till the end of eternity and are never short of goodness that nature has given them. Loving and giving is mothers’ second nature, they keep on giving love, care and sacrifices to the beautiful relationships they have in their lives which are their only treasure. They can’t see any loved one in pain or grim, they sort out the biggest matter in their hands and dive in to unknown territories to save and protect their relations, they are extreme givers and the queens of emotional empires. They run an entire home on their petite and fragile shoulders but don’t even sigh! They fight with the world for their loved ones and even the most powerful almighty has bowed to their endeavors when “Sati” fought with god to bring back life in to her dead husband. They are lovers, givers, friends, creators, believers, achievers and what not? If a mother has to be defined in a word even by Albert Einstein, the scientist would rather prefer to turn a sage than answering the question as its too complicated and rather interesting as well. In the coming years, i would suggest a new subject of thesis to the R&D department:- role of mothers in this world and i am pretty sure the findings of this peculiar subject would take the entire world by storm. The fact that they are on the second place in the list of creators after god; makes them more worthy and awe-inspiring, isn’t it?
They are multi-taskers, emotionally robust, physically sound and spiritually inclined, Who else can dare to multi task as them! Woman are the best gift to mankind and why not….they create the world as a mother and if ignited, destroy the world as goddess Durga too! Mothers start their days with love and finish it off with bed-time stories. In between they juggle with their house duties, office worries, grossory-lists, kids’s PTM’s, spouse’s irrational behaviour, in-laws demands, spa’s and parlour’s rush visits, cranky kids and their king-size homework schedules, unexpected visitors and guests, special food demands, long kitchen standing hours, sometimes eruptions like pimples and under-eye dark circles, half-slept syndrome, scolding from anywhere (READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES) forgetful behaviour and by god’s grace…..WHAT NOT? Mothers are the ones who are doing many things even when doing nothing. We keep worrying as to what will be cooked tomorrow for breakfast, lunch and dinner, we worry if the kids’s uniform has been washed and ironed, we wonder if the mother-in-law is upset with us for sleeping late on Sunday, we ponder if the alarm will go on time in the morning, we worry if the child is fully prepared for tomorrow’s exam and will score good, we analyze if the hubby is in good mood to talk about the daughter’s demand of new mobile or son’s demand of new video game, we worry what to gift sister-in-law when she visits in summer vacation or the return gifts for the kids’s birthday party, We overcook our minds to wonder if the electricity bill, LPG bill, Internet bill, phone bill are due some time and has to be paid, we take care of every individual associated with us. We are cleaner, cook, dry cleaner, helper, teacher, plumber, driver and basically captain of ship which will surely doom if we are not alert and expert. Husband wants our expert advice for his official issues, kids want us to guide them in studies and about their age problems and inquiries, in-laws wants us to help them in their social circles, relatives wants us to rescue them from any problem they are facing so ultimately a mother is a super-woman handling so many relationships in a go that she ceases to remain individual. She’s just like sugar which dissolves in every relationship, looses her identity but her sweet taste keeps reminding us that she’s with us all the time. Though god has given us a strong heart and undaunted will to deal with all this uninterrupted day after day apart from beautiful faces and irreplaceable hearts but as ladies, we tend to overstretch ourselves by giving too much but receiving less on the other hand. We keep on giving endlessly….
Mothers are the most stressed out but they seem to remain neutral and don’t show their fatigue to us until some major health problem crops up or we seriously take them for granted and always see them smiling. Mothers have this special ability to hide their pains by flashing a 1000 watt smile and we forget that she’s human being too who should be cared and pampered too.As a woman, she should clearly enjoy the luxury of being a mother which means to speak clearly what she feels inside, act what she feels is right not as per society’s wishes, being able to love and live freely, to indulge in ice-cream licking it without feeling guilty about calories gulped, to be unapologetic about her public behavior, to be comfortable in her own skin, to be comfortable with her body weight and body type, to not care any random view or comment spoiling her day or mood, to wear what she feels sexy and comfortable about, to eat sleep read as and whenever she wants to, to wake up early and see Sun rising, to sleep late counting stars, to introspect herself for her failures and insecurities, to relive her moments of passion and love, to accept her failures and to boast about her achievements and most importantly pamper herself, which will also ensure to take her in to her own world and prepare her for the upcoming fights with life and circumstances.
So kids, don’t stress out your mothers more and give her reasons to relax and rejoice her life. Dear kids, you are her backbone as she’s yours so if the backbone remains healthy, your body will endure more. So let’s give her love back!
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